TY - BOOK AU - Glass,Shirley P. AU - Staeheli,Jean Coppock TI - Not "just friends": rebuilding trust and recovering your sanity after infidelity SN - 074322549X (pbk.) PY - 2003/// CY - New York PB - Free Press KW - Adultery N1 - Includes bibliographical references and index; I'm telling you, we're just friends -- Crossing into a double life -- Reaching the moment of revelation -- In the wake of discovery -- Should you pick up the pieces or throw in the towel? -- How to cope with obsessing and flashbacks -- Repairing the couple and building goodwill -- Story of the affair -- Story of your marriage -- Your individual stories -- Story of outside influences -- Story of the affair partner -- Healing together -- Forgiving and moving forward -- Healing alone -- Afterword: mini-guide to safe friendships and a secure marriage ER -